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5 Gaskiya Game da Cin zarafin Zina

5 Gaskiya Game da Cin zarafin Zina

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A sabuwar rana tana garemu. A ƙarshe mutane suna da tattaunawa ta gaskiya game da jima'i, lafiyar jima'i, tashin hankali na jima'i da duk matsayin da ake bi. A mafi tsawon lokaci, an tattauna irin wannan tattaunawar a cikin hikima ko a'a, amma daga karshe, abubuwan suna dubawa kuma mun fi dacewa da shi.

Youngan mata sun saba da ɗaukar wannan rashin kunya safiya bayan dare ya yi ba su iya ma faɗi kalma ga kowa game da cin zarafi saboda za a ɗora musu alhakin rashin kulawa da yanayin rashin kulawar su. Wadansu mutane sun sami dangi ko aboki na kusa su amfana da su, ta hanyar bata amanarsu a cikin yaudarar sanku. A duk faɗin duniya, al'amuran yau da kullun suna faruwa kowace rana kuma wasu daga cikin mu suna yin la'akari da shi ta hanyar juya ɗayan kuncin a cikin rashin tsaro, har sai da ta afka gida sannan duk mu zama masu gwagwarmaya.

To menene tashin hankali? ma'anar tashin hankali

Rikicin jima'i yana nufin kowane aiki na jima'i ko ƙoƙarin samun ayyukan jima'i ta hanyar tashin hankali ko tilastawa. Kamar yawancin batutuwa masu hankali, akwai jahilci da yawa da ke da alaƙar tashin hankali.

Akwai wasu abubuwan da mutane ba su sani sarai ba ko kuma a sarari, ba za su iya fahimta ba kuma wannan shine inda kake ɗaukar kanka da bayanan da suka dace suna wasa kuma idan kowa zai ɗauki nauyin hankalinsu game da jima'i, duniya zata kasance mafi aminci.

Waɗannan wasu gaskiyane game da lafiyar jima'i da yakamata mu sani

# 1. Rikici na jima'i na iya faruwa ga ɗayanmu

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Rikicin jima'i na iya faruwa ga kowa ba tare da la'akari da jinsi ba, shekaru, launin fata, addini, da kuma tattalin arziki. Hakan yana da ban tsoro don tunani amma abin bakin ciki gaskiya ne. Wannan ya kamata ya sanya mu zama cikin nutsuwa kuma mu sanya ido a kan duk wani nau'in tashin hankali kuma kar mu mai da kurma kawai saboda ba abin da ya same ka ko wanda ka sani. Hakanan, idan kun san hakan na iya faruwa da kai ko wanda kake ƙauna, juyayi zai zo yana ta fitowa ta halitta.


# 2. Yana da yawa wani wanda kuka sani

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Yawancin kisan kai da fyaɗe wanda wani wanda abin ya faru yasan ya aikata. Bincike ya nuna cewa tsakanin wadanda abin ya shafa masu shekaru 18 zuwa 29 ne, kashi biyu cikin uku suna da dangantaka ta farko da mai laifin. Wannan shine dalilin da ya sa ya kamata a yi taka tsantsan don guje wa wannan yanayin. Idan ya zo ga yara, kar ku bar youra littlean ku tare da kowa kowa komai tasirin asalin danginsu. Hakanan, koya musu suyi magana da kansu idan wani ya shafe su ta hanyar da ba ta dace ba da kuma taimaka musu su dogara da kai da kuma gamsuwa da musayar kowane labari.

Koda a matsayin ka na manya, yin taka tsantsan game da wanda ka ziyarta da kuma wanda ya ziyarce ka, zai yi matukar tasiri wajen hana tashin hankali. Maganar "Shi ne wanda ya san ku, shi ya fi sanin yadda zai kashe ku" abu ne mai matukar fadi kuma gaskiya ne.

# 3. Tipsy ba yarda

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Woohoo !!! Ruwan sha ko biyu ba zai cutar da kowa ba kuma kafin ka san shi duniya tana zubewa kuma muna kangin kayan aiki. Wannan ya faru da yawancin mu a lokaci daya a rayuwa kuma idan baku dandana ba, yayi muku kyau. Wannan bawai don tabbatar da ɓata da ɓatar da ikon kula da mutum bane amma cinye mutum mai haɗari babban kuskure ne. Kasancewa ƙarƙashin ikon giya ko kwayoyi ba gayyata bane don yin jima'i. Mutumin da ke ƙarƙashin tasirin kwayoyi ko barasa ba zai iya tsayayyun yanke shawara ko bayar da yarda ba, don haka bai kamata a tilasta shi cikin kowane irin jima'i ba.


# 4. Harin jima'i KADA KAI wahalarka

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Abin ƙyamar da aka yiwa wa waɗanda aka azabtar da shi ta hanyar jima'i galibi yakan bar wa waɗanda abin ya shafa su ji da ɗan laifi da kunya. A cikin al'adu da yawa daga Najeriya zuwa Amurka, Indiya har zuwa Burtaniya, wannan ita ce kawai inda ake tuhumar wanda aka azabtar da shi don kasancewa wanda aka azabtar. Ba daidai ba? Akasin yarda da sanannen imani na fyade jima'i ba ta hanyar abubuwan da aka azabtar da shi, halayensa, ko yadda suke sawa ba. Mutun ne wanda bashi da iko da kamun kai kuma ya sami matsala, hanya daya ko ɗayan. Hakkin mu ne mu taimaka wa wadanda abin ya shafa ta hanyar tashin hankali su fahimci cewa ba laifin su bane kuma waraka mai yiwuwa ne.

# 5. Warkar tana yiwuwa

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Yin lalata da jima'i yana barin wanda aka azabtar dashi a zahiri da kuma ruhi kuma an dade ana lalacewa ta hanyar lalacewa, har yanzu raunin hankalin mai tserewa ya ragu. Samun murmurewa daga cin zarafin jima'i ko cin zarafi yana ɗaukar lokaci kuma ba wanda ya isa ya hanzarta zuwa cikin shawo kan lamarin. Masu tsira suna buƙatar yin haƙuri da kansu, neman taimako na ƙwararru da aiwatar da aikin kulawa da kansu. Taimako da tausayawa na tafiya mai zurfi wajen tabbatar da cewa wadanda abin ya shafa suna jin cewa suna cikin koshin lafiya.

Yana da mahimmanci mu sanar da kanmu game da tashin hankalin jima'i kuma mu ci gaba da yin tattaunawa mai amfani a kan batun saboda, a ƙarshen rana, canjin ya fara da kowannenmu.

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